Here's a question most men ask themselves at 2am at some point, usually after a wedding, a breakup, or a birthday that ends in a zero: how do you actually know she's the one? I don't think there's a checklist. But I do think there's a trap — and once you see it, you can't unsee it. The trap is quiet giving up. Somewhere along the way, a lot of men stop believing in the idea of "the one" altogether. Not dramatically. Not with a speech. They just meet someone who's fine — pleas
